Chad offers an invitation to WOMEN interested in romance and adult topics. He responds to friendly persuasion, not physical or verbal abuse. Kindness, civility, and gentleness are the way to get through to him. The everyday terms of politeness are the keywords, and the word, "please," never goes out of fashion. While this is an adult chat site, it's primarily directed at women looking to chat with a male. This is not a gay site.